Adrienne Rich (16 May 1929 – 27 March 2012 / Baltimore, Maryland)
Quotations
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''As her sons have seen her: the mother in patriarchy: controlling, erotic, castrating, heart-suffering, guilt-ridden, and guilt-provoking; a marble brow, a huge breast, an avid cave; between her legs snakes, swampgrass, or teeth; on her lap a helpless infant or a martyred son. She exists for one purpose: to bear and nourish the son.''
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. Of Woman Born, ch. 8 (1976). -
''My children cause me the most exquisite suffering of which I have any experience. It is the suffering of ambivalence: the murderous alternation between bitter resentment and raw-edged nerves, and blissful gratification and tenderness. Sometimes I seem to myself, in my feelings toward these tiny guiltless beings, a monster of selfishness and intolerance.''
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. Of Woman Born, ch. 1 (1976). -
''The mother's battle for her childwith sickness, with poverty, with war, with all the forces of exploitation and callousness that cheapen human lifeneeds to become a common human battle, waged in love and in the passion for survival.''
Adrienne Rich (20th century), U.S. author. Of Women Born: Motherhood as Experience and Institution (1976). -
''It is ... crucial that we understand lesbian/feminism in the deepest, most radical sense: as that love for ourselves and other women, that commitment to the freedom of all of us, which transcends the category of "sexual preference" and the issue of civil rights, to become a politics of asking women's questions, demanding a world in which the integrity of all womennot a chosen fewshall be honored and validated in every respect of culture.''
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. On Lies, Secrets, and Silence, foreword (1980). -
''the true nature of poetry. The drive
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet, essayist, and lesbian feminist. "Origins and History of Consciousness," part 1, lines 11-12 (1972-1974).
to connect. The dream of a common language.'' -
''No one lives in this room
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. Origins and History of Consciousness, The Dream of a Common Language (1978).
without confronting the whiteness of the wall
behind the poems, planks of books,
photographs of dead heroines.
Without contemplating last and late
the true nature of poetry. The drive
to connect. The dream of a common language.'' -
''children are dying my death
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. Orion (l. 29-30). . . Norton Anthology of Poetry, The. Alexander W. Allison and others, eds. (3d ed., 1983) W. W. Norton & Company.
and eating crumbs of my life.'' -
''Pity is not your forte.
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. Orion (l. 31-34). . . Norton Anthology of Poetry, The. Alexander W. Allison and others, eds. (3d ed., 1983) W. W. Norton & Company.
Calmly you ache up there
pinned aloft in your crow's nest,
my speechless pirate!'' -
''Only to have a grief
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet. "Peeling Onions," Snaphots of a Daughter-in-Law (1963).
equal to all these tears!'' -
''... this world gives no room
Adrienne Rich (b. 1929), U.S. poet and feminist. "Pieces," section 3, lines 12-13 (1969).
to be what we dreamt of being''
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Miracle Ice Cream
Miracle's truck comes down the little avenue,
Scott Joplin ragtime strewn behind it like pearls,
and, yes, you can feel happy
with one piece of your heart.
Take what's still given: in a room's rich shadow
a woman's breasts swinging lightly as she bends.
Early now the pearl of dusk dissolves.
Late, you sit weighing the evening news,
