Joseph Anderson

Rookie - 191 Points (3-12-25)

A Chauvinistic Male?

Long years ago we said our vows,
Which ended with a kiss;
In thinking on those years, I see
Some trials, some tears and bliss.

I oft time lead in many ways,
But sometime lean on her;
Though mutual sharing is our goal,
That oft does not occur.

My friends think I'm aggressive,
That seems my natural bent;
We walk the married road, perhaps
The way God surely meant.

Our children honor and respect,
That greatly pleases us;
The tender harmony we share
Is an even greater plus.

Please pardon, please this age'ed male,
Raised in a different clime;
Forgive him for he has become
A symbol of his time.

Both praise or criticism would be
appreciated. Perhaps it would clear my mind.

Submitted: Sunday, June 10, 2012


Do you like this poem?
0 person liked.
0 person did not like.

Read this poem in other languages

This poem has not been translated into any other language yet.

I would like to translate this poem »

word flags

What do you think this poem is about?

Comments about this poem (A Chauvinistic Male? by Joseph Anderson )

Enter the verification code :

  • Rookie - 15 Points Thomas Vaughan Jones (1/28/2014 1:01:00 PM)

    Very reflective Joe. We walk the same road. The meter runs easily, tripping off the tongue and making for one of those reads which creep in and catch you in the throat. (P.S. As you already know, my parrot is of a like mind) :) (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 31 Points John Brown (11/29/2013 8:56:00 AM)

    You seem no more a chauvinist than most men Joe. It's just the way we men are, and our traits are built into our DNA. This is not an excuse for bad behaviour, but sometimes we have to be tough, and aggressive, and it is all too often a frustrating and precarious balancing act. (Report) Reply

  • Freshman - 1,782 Points Kevin Patrick (3/18/2013 2:06:00 PM)

    Was not expecting to read this giving the title, but it delivered something else entirely, you articulate the grace of marriage so well that you give that institution hope in those who believe in commitment. A glorious read, that celebrate cooperation and interdependence of that union. (Report) Reply

  • Veteran Poet - 2,588 Points Patricia Grantham (3/1/2013 7:56:00 AM)

    Joseph, A truly enjoyed poem. The sanctity of marriage is a two way street.
    Sounds like you met the love of your life on that street. Thanks. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 206 Points Dee Corpolongo (11/14/2012 9:23:00 PM)

    I loved this beautiful poem of love and life together with another. Excellent,
    and almost leaves one wishing they could find such content in life. Thank you. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 182 Points Karen Sinclair (7/18/2012 5:53:00 PM)

    Beautifully put, honesty and nostalgia two of the main ingredients i love in life.... the tie up lines just nudged to a different area.... grand truly grand.....karen: D (Report) Reply

  • Veteran Poet - 3,113 Points Walterrean Salley (6/13/2012 11:07:00 PM)

    I oft time lead in many ways,
    But sometime lean on her;
    Though mutual sharing is our goal,
    That oft does not occur.

    Beautiful. Thanks for sharing from the depths your heart. The years have made you wise, and It's a blessing that you share these little gems with us. Thanks. 10 (Report) Reply

  • Veteran Poet - 2,787 Points Valerie Dohren (6/12/2012 1:50:00 PM)

    Only you know in your heart if you are chauvinistic - if you feel you are, you can always change. (Report) Reply

  • Veteran Poet - 3,513 Points Veeraiyah Subbulakshmi (6/12/2012 2:27:00 AM)

    As long as your children respect and honor you now, you must have lived a very productive life in your prime, though you called yourself still aggressive..Thank you for opening your heart to us. I think that it is beautiful.. (Report) Reply

  • Freshman - 1,925 Points Hans Vr (6/11/2012 9:26:00 AM)

    I love the sincere reflection that goes on.
    If just more of us could reflect on what is good and what is not in our life, the world would look oh so different.
    Excellent piece of poetry. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 340 Points Captain Cur (6/10/2012 7:10:00 PM)

    I think Chauvinistic means not having respect for women, thinking them inferior. Not by leading or being supportive.
    If you feel you are too aggressive in the relationship, that is something you can change. A good solid poem, written about years of marraige and about someone you still love and care about. Now that's something to brag about. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Heather Wilson (6/10/2012 2:54:00 PM)

    The tender harmony we share, tells all in this fantastic poem Sir, such a wonderful read,

    thank you, you really in no way sound Chauvinistic to me. (Report) Reply

Read all 15 comments »

Trending Poets

Trending Poems

  1. Dreams, Langston Hughes
  2. As I Grew Older, Langston Hughes
  3. Mother to Son, Langston Hughes
  4. I Dream A World, Langston Hughes
  5. I, Too, Langston Hughes
  6. Still I Rise, Maya Angelou
  7. If, Rudyard Kipling
  8. Let America be America Again, Langston Hughes
  9. The Road Not Taken, Robert Frost
  10. Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening, Robert Frost

Poem of the Day

THE CHANCELLOR mused as he nibbled his pen
(Sure no Minister ever looked wiser),
And said, “I can summon a million of men
To fight for their country and Kaiser;

...... Read complete »


Member Poem

New Poems

  1. Dances, David Harris
  2. Life, Vaishnavi Singh
  3. God, Asit Kumar Sanyal
  4. Apatnaput-apat (44), herbert guitang
  5. Schoon Poepske, Madrason writer
  6. Your Heart To Mine, Michael P. McParland
  7. Motivation, Kim Lee
  8. A life without pain, DEEPAK KUMAR PATTANAYAK
  9. BLUE, Soumita Sarkar Ray
  10. Mental Torment, Kim Lee
[Hata Bildir]