Criticism Poem by Amrit Rathi
Criticism
Don’t mind criticism. If it is untrue, disregard it; if unfair, keep from
irritation; if it is ignorant, smile; if it is justified
it is not criticism, learn from it.
—Unknown
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Nobody likes criticism,
it may be me, you, or they;
everyone tries to defend, without seeing
truth of what you say.
You may pull your hair
why he unnecessarily feels attacked,
you are his well wisher- he is aware-
still, why he can’t see
you won’t say a thing but fact.
It makes him angry; it makes him sad;
he feels disheartened; he feels bad.
It doesn’t matter if you are wrong or right,
criticism you should always avoid.
There are many better ways to deal
with human beings than to criticize.
Ah. Animals are better: they don’t that way feel!
Humans, very few take criticism unaffected, as a prize.
First, avoid criticism,
or at least water it down,
or do it indirectly,
such that it doesn’t make him frown.
Or you could start first from yourself:
that you used to made much worse mistakes,
and that his mistake was but quite small:
he may open up with no offence at all.
Nobody kicks a dead dog,
you can bring home this point;
all limelight if only he does hog,
it’s normal, then people will criticize.
So if criticism’s not genuine, just ignore it:
this is difficult but yet it's most wise.
Or in your mind like an impartial judge,
let the pros and cons of criticism plead.
Objectively attack the current issue,
than one who criticizes you.
Or have an attitude of being always thankful
to one who criticizes you undeterred,
for at times some aspect you do miss out -
but the wheat from chaff you do sort out.
As water wears off even the rocks at sea,
in his company your bad habits will gradually flee.
And what about the opportunities
you would otherwise miss?
So criticism is something
you shouldn’t miss.
As a matter of fact,
you should always welcome it.
And in your heart if you feel it’s true,
you should instantly admit it.
criticism when rude it makes problems...when someone criticizes he has to be polite and caring not to make someone angry or sad... your poem is simply read and i like that...poets doesn't have to write with a difficult language to show they are skilled....i liked this poem very much though in the middle i felt i'm reading prosody more than poetry...but still it's great...keep writing. thanks for sharing
Criticism, Can be so hurtful, yet constructive criticism can be guiding and helpful. It should not be a stumbling block, but a platform for examination. It is a type of disiplining, if you like. We should not allow criticsim to become an offence. But, yes, some criticim does hurt, especially when it is given out of malice. Well written.; D
Or have an attitude of being always thankful to one who criticizes you undeterred, yes criticism can contain a surprising amount of suddenly revealed truth
For Amrit Rathi my friend, in tribute to two lines in your poem I especially liked An Unintended Blessing the critic serves a useful purpose criticism can contain a surprising amount of suddenly revealed truth comments may have been venom versed yet these are a great source of inspiration in identifying areas to accurately improve my philosophy, to use criticism, for a better, more determined purpose, as focus point, as an inspiration, to succeed, to attain excellence God Bless my friend
Now there is an apt subject. We are subject to so much of it. Read mine - Impressions - Adeline
noone likes being criticised at the same time criticizes....we ignore our faults and focus on others coz we as human beings want to be told...faithlessly assume consciously or subconsciously 'i am the best...better than the rest'....insightful n shows your eminent understanding of ours' society....
True 'Nobody likes criticism'. Because we tend to take judging ones merits and or faults are personal attacts on ones beings.I would imagine how one accepts criticism is cultural as opposed to being universal phenomenon. I like the way your poem puts it: 'let the pros and cons of critcism plead.' I learned much from your poem as one can learn criticism. As usual, a good job, Amrit.
reader shall feel the truth about the poem and the words written. The truth of human nature sometimes can be so hurtful but with open mind, things should gone sood not bad. We can feel how your poem is guiding in real sense and readable by all walks of life. Thanks for sharing your wise and clear opinion about us, human.
Very accurate and nicely worded. Thanks for the knowledge. I feel a little smarter now. Keep up the good work.
This poem has not been translated into any other language yet.
I would like to translate this poem
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Great poem Amrit, seems that you have this wisdom ahead of your time, thats a life well spent..