Way Too Often We Project On Our Lover The Abuse We Suffered As Children And Way Too Often They Do The Same To Us Poem by Tony Kavuoti

Way Too often we project on our lover the abuse we suffered as children

and way too often they do the same to us

We reenact it

in many ways

in many form

The repressive of mechanism of this

The sexuality of it


This creates an irresistible urge that blinds us

so You don't see the pain of your childhood

So you don't see how you were betrayed by those that were supposed to love us
to Protect us.

It's too painful to beer as a child

so we compulsively reenact it as adults with different partners

My poetry in my writing I go from the child's passion and emotions

To the adult cerebral and intellect

Not to be marooned on either is the way of true healing

To process it

to see it

It's much faster and better with someone who will validate

And enlighten individual that is able, that is capable to see
who sensitive, emotionally attuned enough,

to validate, to see and perceive your reality.

to The face and bear the truth

Someone who is not dependent on drugs and alcohol

who has their emotional legs to stand on, and not the crutches of defensive self help thinking drugs and alcohol, or running with alcoholics, someone who is not a neglectful parent or child abuser

Is not dependent on abusing, of miss using others and misusing their power as well as indifference

Voice toText draft.