damn-you hit that nail right on the head......listen to your head girl! i followed my heart and still ended up leaving him 6 years later after he stopped. if i had left when it happened i could have saved us all from more pain than necessary. no regrets though-i have three beautiful children to show for those 11 wasted years that i never forgot his numerous infidelities. once a cheater always a cheater in the back of the mind even if not in fact! if it was really, seriously love then they wouldn't stray to begin with. straying also shows they don't respect you as a person-you always have to remember that you deserve better!
Love is like a rose, with gentle tender parts, Slowly it unfolds, And develops in your heart, Its beauty cant be tamed, Its as wild as the wind, Words can never explain, The feeling held within, You could be cut by a thorn,