When I was young, my mother told me to never judge a man by the way he may appear. I carried this sentiment with me...until I found a guy wearing a sequin miniskirt and a looney tunes t-shirt in walmart. What the heck? I asked if he was okay and he just laughed at me. I definitely judged that man.
The opposite of a pessimist is an optimist. Well, what's the opposite of an optimist, then? I've asked this question my entire life and no one has been able to answer it. The man that can, that man I shall wed.
The worst way to break up with someone? Disappear from his life for four years by faking a mysterious death, then reappear married to his dad. Announce yourself as his step mother and deny your true identity.