Moving on never means you erase the memories. Memories will never go because those are of special times involving special people at that moment of your life; but it means how you live life to the fullest while having these memories.
Obviously the facts are never just coming at you but are incorporated by an imagination that is formed by your previous experience. Memories of the past are not memories of facts but memories of your imaginings of the facts.
(Philip Roth (b. 1933), U.S. novelist. The Facts (1988).
Opening letter to Zuckerman, Roth's fictional alter ego.)