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Charles Bukowski (1920 - 1994 / Andernach / Germany)
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Charles Bukowski, born in 1920, began writing at a young age and was first published in the 1940s. Then Bukowksi gave up writing for the world of work .. more >>
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Be Kind

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  we are always asked
to understand the other person's
viewpoint
no matter how
out-dated
foolish or
obnoxious.

one is asked
to view
their total error
their life-waste
with
kindliness,
especially if they are
aged.

but age is the total of
our doing.
they have aged
badly
because they have
lived
out of focus,
they have refused to
see.

not their fault?

whose fault?
mine?

I am asked to hide
my viewpoint
from them
for fear of their
fear.

age is no crime

but the shame
of a deliberately
wasted
life

among so many
deliberately
wasted
lives

is.

Charles Bukowski


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  like flying  (10/24/2009 3:02:00 AM)

everything he writes is just so simply true.
  Nick Thompson  (3/2/2009 1:03:00 AM)

This poem is awesome. In favor of being kind we perpetuate the wasting of each others lives. I live in a small town and I see this all the time. People that don't have any money, live with their parents, drink all the time, can't hold a job, and have lived here their whole lives. You have to be kind otherwise you are the bad person. Soon enough you find they are just a reflection of yourself because you have accepted the way they are.
  Roger Cornish  (10/4/2008 8:44:00 AM)

Bukowski.....The most under rated poet of the 20th Century.....
True.
Only the level of alianation he experienced can produce that kind of spirit.
  George Makris  (10/2/2008 9:30:00 AM)

AGE wasted life... age is a cool dry beast inside us all
it crushes dreams and stops the mind
and rules the soul............gm
  Alex Klein  (1/28/2008 12:11:00 AM)

Aw crap, here I go again!

There's a lot of people I've met in libraries who take there presence there in itself as meaning something. Full-fledged snoberry. There's the 'actual' quite person in that very library who might actually be way beyond that snobery for sure. But, more often than not; they're few. Or so it would seem. I don't frequent libraries that often. But it seems that every time I do, I'm teetering on the edge of that kind of reaction. People wrapped up in the classics looking over their shoulders at anyone that might make a noise; like some punk or something. I was dressed up in my usual clothes; sort of half skater, half stoner (I don't like those black and white terms, but I'll go with them for the purpose of description) , and I went up to the lady working the computer...I asked for Huxley's 'The Doors of Perception'. The girl started looking to see if the book was available. I was then somewhat 'attacked' by this women to my right. I say attacked, but I actually thouroughly enjoyed her fight. She looked me up and down while saying that I was just looking for books about drugs by drug addicts that are taken far too seriously. I said that a drug does'nt have an opinion. And I think I smiled at her like a lunatic after that, but felt so embarassed and idiotic. Inside I wanted to add a lot more to my deffence, but I'm not good with aggresive moments. The girl working there told me they did'nt have the book and I noticed the girl who I'd argued with smiling in the corner of my eye. I had quite a bit of time on my hands that day, and the only thing I regret is not having invited that bitter girl for a seat or two and a good argument beyond that awkward space in front of the nervous girl who was trying not to laugh and smile. I cycled home on my bike imagining all the things I could have said in my deffence. The usual.

It reminds me of scenes where a father, or mother or any family member can't take the mad lifestyle of their loved-ones but then retires to bed beneath a copy of a Van Gaugh painting and reads a writer who eventually killed themselves.
  Alex Klein  (1/27/2008 11:45:00 PM)

Michael Speakman: Maybe they're not THAT bad. Maybe I am'nt understanding you though. But if you really feel 'they' are., should'nt you wonder about your kindness that ou speak of? Judges and all that...Maybe I did'nt spot you're sarchasm though. Were you?
  Alex Klein  (1/11/2008 4:38:00 AM)

If you vomited and called that art, someone for sure would want to kill you. After all, time is short, right?
  Michael Speakman  (9/21/2007 8:59:00 AM)

Buck I am kind
But others are not
They
Will
Walk
a
Mile out of their way to
Trip
Me
Up........
EG:
Too many to
Mention..
But oh
Lord..they are good!
Yes...they are good
  Yoonoos Peerbocus  (6/12/2007 5:45:00 PM)

we cannot compromise with truth..well done

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