Pablo Neruda

(12 July 1904 – 23 September 1973 / Parral / Chile)

If You Forget Me - Poem by Pablo Neruda

I want you to know
one thing.

You know how this is:
if I look
at the crystal moon, at the red branch
of the slow autumn at my window,
if I touch
near the fire
the impalpable ash
or the wrinkled body of the log,
everything carries me to you,
as if everything that exists,
aromas, light, metals,
were little boats
that sail
toward those isles of yours that wait for me.

Well, now,
if little by little you stop loving me
I shall stop loving you little by little.

If suddenly
you forget me
do not look for me,
for I shall already have forgotten you.

If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.

But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.


Comments about If You Forget Me by Pablo Neruda

  • Veteran Poet - 1,201 Points Charity Nduhiu (5/27/2015 2:40:00 AM)

    Nice poem. I love it (Report) Reply

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  • Rookie Anthony Maery (5/19/2015 12:42:00 AM)

    I love this poem (Report) Reply

  • Freshman - 997 Points Naida Nepascua Supnet (5/16/2015 11:43:00 AM)

    His love is so conditional.
    Yet he speaks the truth
    And yes he mirrors people's lives (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 0 Points Paul Mulama (5/12/2015 2:26:00 PM)

    The poem is true. I takes two to tangle (Report) Reply

    Freshman - 997 Points Naida Nepascua Supnet (5/16/2015 11:39:00 AM)

    I like the it takes two to tangle
    real cute..and wittily put.

  • Veteran Poet - 1,103 Points Sally Plumb Plumb (5/9/2015 1:51:00 AM)

    Lovely, lovely. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 126 Points Halla ingimars (4/20/2015 3:17:00 PM)

    So Wonderful and full f love and adventures (Report) Reply

  • Gold Star - 7,930 Points Frank Avon (4/18/2015 8:37:00 PM)

    If you forget me, I'll forget you. If you stop loving me, I will have already stopped loving you. That's Neruda all right. Love is love - for a while.380 comments, and all I've read so far said, Right on! That's the best! ' Hardly what love has been for me.

    Love is not love
    Which alters when it alteration finds,
    Or bends with the remover to remove:
    O no; it is an ever-fixed mark,
    That looks on tempests, and is never shaken;
    It is the star to every wandering bark,
    Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

    Shakespeare, from Sonnet 116

    For a brief account of Neruda's one true love, see http: //insatiablebooksluts.com/2013/04/27/meet-matilde-the-love-muse-of-pablo-neruda/

    Here's one quote: '[Neruda and Matilde Urrutria] met in 1946. Neruda and his second wife, Delia, were attending a concert in Santiago; Matilde caught his eye immediately with her fiery red hair. We don’t generally think of someone who can love so deeply and write about it so beautifully as being a bit of a scoundrel, but Neruda was; he hired her in 1949 to be his nurse while they began their illicit affair under Delia’s nose. He and Matilde eventually had a home together and had been “symbolically” married while Delia was still... well, I was going to say “actually” married to Neruda, but from what I understand, their marriage wasn’t completely legally recognized because of Neruda’s first wife. This wasn’t the first time Neruda had taken a new lover while still married, it seems....

    'Delia left Neruda permanently in 1955; Matilde transformed from a mistress living in the shadows to Neruda’s strong and loving wife. She left everything in her life to be with Neruda....

    'Matilde was Neruda’s last wife and fiercest protector. She forgave him his trespasses, and when she couldn’t, she sought only small revenges; instead of leaving him when he had an affair with her niece, she voted against his candidate in a major political election.'

    So, Pablo could well have written, 'my love feeds on your love, beloved, ' but I'll have my snacks too from time to time. As long as you remain faithful to me, you will be my entree; never mind the side dishes I pick up along the way. 'Love is not love....' (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Abednico Gaoipelelwe (4/3/2015 4:15:00 AM)

    dat it is (Report) Reply

  • Bronze Star - 2,049 Points Bernard Snyder (3/30/2015 3:34:00 PM)

    I love this poem. I'm surprised I hadn't read his until now. Very well fits into one of my favorites of all time! (Report) Reply

  • Veteran Poet - 1,045 Points p.a. noushad (3/23/2015 2:23:00 AM)

    nice, i like your verses very much. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 0 Points iheartseamusheaney Steed (3/21/2015 6:06:00 PM)

    Love this (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 125 Points Benjamin Michael Clark (2/27/2015 12:41:00 PM)

    This is one of my favorite poems. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 10 Points Carol Nthenya (2/5/2015 10:23:00 PM)

    So profound. So true. (Report) Reply

    Freshman - 657 Points Mehmet Turgut (2/26/2015 2:53:00 AM)

    yes yes

  • Rookie - 463 Points Just As i Am As is i Was (1/8/2015 11:18:00 AM)

    I love the words spoken. You get what you give.if give me your all then surely you shall recieve all (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 164 Points Musa Ndhlovu (12/25/2014 11:50:00 AM)

    Nailed it.. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 101 Points Ali Baba (11/20/2014 10:50:00 AM)

    I want you to KNOW.. (Report) Reply

  • Gold Star - 18,331 Points Mohammad Skati (11/15/2014 4:48:00 PM)

    Love waves to all of us.... I loved it. (Report) Reply

  • Bronze Star - 2,049 Points Bernard Snyder (10/31/2014 1:24:00 PM)

    This might be the sweetest poem I've ever heard. Nice job, sir! (Report) Reply

    Rookie - 101 Points Ali Baba (11/20/2014 10:49:00 AM)

    yes you are right

  • Gold Star - 13,393 Points Ramesh Rai (10/25/2014 2:33:00 AM)

    Love is the spirit of life. Hats off Sir. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 456 Points Gexg Lalnuna (10/18/2014 12:31:00 AM)

    My favourite poem: -D.I love the way Pablo thinks and the way he penned it down. (Report) Reply

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Poem Submitted: Friday, January 3, 2003

Poem Edited: Thursday, August 7, 2014


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