My Silent Words Poem by Lavigne Kin

Here is a really serious post. But it's
from my heart, after undergoing a lot
of experience in this, I felt like writing
about this. Read on and you will know
what I mean...


Here is a truth that I have realized very
late, anyway here it is:


When I commit a mistake, I genuinely feel
sorry for my mistake. I sincerely try to
correct my mistake and also try to ensure I
don't commit such a mistake again.
(Whether I had commited that again n
again.) This applies especially in
relationships with other people. I know I
sound like am preaching stuff. But it's not
that simple. When we are sorry for some
mistake we commit, we should try to
correct it, if we hurt someone
unintentionally, a heartfelt sorry and care
not to repeat the mistake will keep the
relationship going strong. But the other
person's reaction also plays an important
part...

I love the thought:
"Never try to explain yourself to
anyone. The people who matter won't
mind and the people who mind don't
matter'.

It is important to understand the depth of
this statement. It does not mean we can
do as we wish, hurt whoever we can and
expect no one should question us. The real
meaning of these words is:
' Know yourself
and trust a few good people to know you
well too'.

Be sincere in what u do and
avoid falseness in your words, thoughts
and actions. The need to explain what we
do will never occur then, even when we
commit some mistake then, the people
who know us well will understand we did
not commit the mistake intentionally.


There are some people who get hurt
easily. We feel really sorry for hurting
them and express our regret. In spite of
our best efforts, if they are still angry with
us, it means a lot of things. It means the
person does not trust us and they want us
to punish us for long as they think we have
done them wrong. If we are really sincere
but we are not able to convince them, we
are truly sorry for hurting them, it is better
to let go and leave it to time to heal the
relationship or let them go in their
separate ways.
Because, first n foremost, when they are
angry with us, it is an utter waste to
persuade them for a long time and
convince them that we are truly sorry.
Secondly a person who feels hurt by us has
a lot of emotions like anger and intent to
punish us. Sometimes they may feel that
they have to punish us and make us feel
guilty for long. When a misunderstanding
happens between them, it causes an
invisible scar in their relationship. If the
positive emotions they feel for each other
like love, affection, care are stronger, then
the misunderstanding will not last long, it
will die an early death. But if they are
already affected by negative emotions like
anger, distrust, hatred, revengefulness, it's
better for them to part.
I don't know whether I explained my
thoughts well. I just feel it's better to be
happy and make others happy and when
we commit some mistake, sincerity in
correcting our mistake is the most
important thing we should immediately do.
In spite of our best efforts, if still our
mistake leaves a mark, just leave it.
Nothing further can be done!
and most further I am trying to get things
done which I had done wrong..I do have
regrets for my mistakes. The mistakes
which I had commited for my family, my
friends, my loved ones, my brother
especially but I do regret for the misatake
i had done for him the most..
he can't ever understand and neither he
want to understand but....
I want to say Sorry..
.
.
I am Sorry and I really Do.
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