See The Beauty In Ugly Poem by JR Cuyam

The things that shake us
are the things that teach us
the things that teach us
are the things that break us
the things that break us
are things that shape us
they speak in silence
teach in different ways

Amplified through catastrophe
spoken through accidents
they glitter in quarrels
they glow in bad arguments
they are unfriendly statements
fruits from bad trees
annoyance from our neighbors
and noise of our pasts