Mrs. Cynosure

Rookie (May 17 1987 / Junction City Oregon)

Sex Without Love - Poem by Mrs. Cynosure

A pleasure we do out of love for the other person
We our sharing the sexual experiment with
When the innocent become the intimate

It’s when that passion of love turns into a hobby
Then into an obsession and then that turns into a have to have
You can’t stop thinking about your next fix
You look for it everywhere in everyone
You start having withdraws from it
You wonder how you got this way
So dependent on it to get you through the day
You think it’s the only thing that your good at
The guys keep coming and going like fire
At times when it hurts so bad you cant do anything
You tell yourself no more not another time
But as soon as soon as your better
Your right back at it
You ask yourself
Why you do this every time
You just don’t understand
It’s as if your being sexualy
Taken advantage by your own body

You wanna tear your hair our if your not doing it
The people just keep getting older while your still the same age
Started 2-3 years now it doesn’t really matter how old as long as you get the fix
You have to do it
It is your drug
Your Acid

People have been telling you for months that you need help
The people that know you the real you
This isn’t the real you and you know it
You can feel it
The lying
The addiction
The lack of pride you have for your body and self
It’s not you
It’s like he said right before he left
How does it feel to be trash now that you are trash,
And now you are truly trash.
You are not trash this is not you

You know how this started a young women lost within her broken hearted emotions
You just know you don’t know how to stop it
You now need help
Lots of help
Cause sitting here
Your itching to do it again
And pleading someone help
HELP! ! ! PLEASE! ! ! HELP! ! !
You don’t wanna be like this forever

Comments about Sex Without Love by Mrs. Cynosure

  • Rookie - 34 Points Joe Mannion (8/3/2015 5:14:00 PM)

    sex without love really blew me away, you must put the book together and make it wishes, joe x (Report) Reply

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  • Gold Star - 10,165 Points Khairul Ahsan (7/17/2015 1:55:00 AM)

    I know someone who is like this. Your depiction of a sex addict is near to perfect, but some grammatical errors mar the beauty of the poem. (Report) Reply

  • Gold Star - 6,600 Points Howard 'the motivational poet' Simon (5/8/2015 9:28:00 AM)

    swimming in the sea of sex addiction.Well done my friend! (Report) Reply

  • Gold Star - 19,422 Points Ramesh Rai (12/21/2013 7:39:00 AM)

    first of all i like to congratulate you for writing such a wonderful poem which deserves much more praises and much more compatible during these days of crisis. next poetry is the expression of soul. it does not bother for language or grammar.a poet pose his emotion alluring them with thoughts and wear the uniform of word. PH is not the final stage of any poem. certainly before giving it for final print you will need to discuss on so many aspect. overall a good concept n beautiful expression. go ahead n enrich the poetry world. may God bless you.10/10 (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Jacob Sewell (1/19/2012 11:46:00 PM)

    An interesting depiction of sex addiction. I like it! (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Abhirami Das (10/25/2011 10:24:00 AM) amazing job.i like the way u depicted sex addicts. keep it up! ! (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Eli Medina (11/1/2010 12:30:00 PM)

    i really enjoyed this poem...thank you 4 sharing! (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 147 Points kunjubi Varghese (10/22/2010 12:17:00 PM)

    Bare facts truthfully depicted. Cowards dare not try such confessions. Come what may you are a victor. This is maniacal tendencies of the sub-conscious. A syndrome for hyper
    active sexual urge. There are millions who undergoes such trauma every moment...
    And there is one School of Thought.. viz.the catharsis or the bliss you derive from the action is a sample/ replica of the rapture experienced in Heaven. A great poem undoubtedly true to the core.and also true portrayal of the mind...well done... cheers (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Kate Frost (6/19/2010 1:03:00 AM)

    I really enjoy reading this poem. It's amazing the way you expressed it. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 0 Points Palitha Ariyarathna (5/13/2010 2:28:00 AM)

    Self control and self confidence advisable....nice poem (Report) Reply

  • Gold Star - 13,175 Points Dr.tony Brahmin (5/9/2010 5:48:00 AM)

    like this poem.. you are picturing a reality. so many suffers like this and u brought it to limelight. thank u for sharing. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie - 26 Points Marie Bliss (4/2/2010 5:21:00 AM)

    To F.J.R, ever heard of poetic license? A good poem pours forth from the heart like this one and doesn't need perfect spelling or grammar! (Report) Reply

  • Gold Star - 56,938 Points Frank James Ryan Jr...fjr (1/31/2010 3:34:00 AM)

    Becca, you have an imaginative mind, and i think the potential to hone that popetic element, and raise it to the next level. That said, and with all respectful genuine constructive criticism....Your spelling and grammar are either suffering from woeful deficiency or blatant laziness....Awriter cannot succeed if they cannot embrace the simplest of basic grammar. Poor spelling is a simple fix, called''Spellcheck'', or Webster's Dictionary. Read your contemporary Poet's, and practice writing simple free-verse in your spare time. Good Luck, young lady, and stop rigging your daily stats on this poem!

    FjR (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Carrie Lehenbauer (1/5/2010 3:50:00 PM)

    The Sharon Olds version is way better. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie ¢¾idailz baby ¢¾ (10/23/2009 11:58:00 AM)

    wow i love this pome it makes me think of life keep it up (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Olivia Harris (9/28/2009 6:51:00 PM)

    The only cure is finding the one you love with all of your heart.
    That's how it was with me. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie M. J. Burns (9/23/2009 9:56:00 PM)

    Since when does sex have to do with love? You should face reality, rather then wasting your time writing about useless crap. You judge those like they sick, when only those situation happen to a selected few. nice try. (Report) Reply

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  • Rookie - 0 Points Bethany M. (9/14/2009 5:55:00 PM)

    I saw the title and had to read this its so true, sadly. So many women(and men actually) find themselves in this place and a lot of them don't care they just keep doing it to 'get their fix' it is 'their acid'. And as a person who has been on the edges of this road I have seen what it means to just become addicted to it all, I realized it wasn't what i wanted and I was strong enough to move away and back to the right path, but the sad thing is so many people either aren't that strong, or don't want to be. (Report) Reply

  • Rookie Lorenzo Cruz (9/5/2009 8:59:00 PM)

    I traveled this road, and sometimes see it in the distance, not a happy place after a couple of miles.. great piece of work, thanks for sharing. (Report) Reply

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Poem Submitted: Saturday, October 18, 2008

Poem Edited: Saturday, May 21, 2011

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