What Love Feels Like-The Whole Body Orgasm Pt2 Poem by Lonnie Hicks

She said, 'everyone talks about what love feels like'
but no one speaks of the cracking sensation,
the thunderbolt revelations,
the orgasmic earthquake that splits
the soul
and threatens to obviate-no does obviate-
heart, mind, body and soul-
The Whole Body Orgasm'

'It happened to me she said, 'and frightened me so
that I have sought to avoid
it happening again because I feared to repeat
what might destroy the me I had grown comfortable. with.'

I sat rapt listening.
'So tell me what is this splitting, body scream, beyond
even love? '

'It is a body quake: it is shattering, and it changes you-
changes who you are-when it happens;
that is why many never allow it again.'

'Ok, give me some more detail'
She said
'Ok, have you ever
in making love felt your legs begin to shake
uncontrollably and you could not make them stop?

'That is the beginning.
You feel, too, a deep sadness and joy as well
and you begin to cry.
This is a soul-quake.'
'Sadness for every time in your life you made love
and did not feel love, made love with some one you did not
feel love for, for every time you had sex without feeling sexy;
for all the hurts and harms lodged not in the heart but in the
body itself, not in the head, but in arms and limps, jaws, throat
eyes-all of you.
This is the sadness which pours out' she said
The WBO, when making love, opens the doors to the soul
to let in the love in but that door
also allows all past memories and any past unlove to flood out.

Because to know love is to recognize all the times where there was no love
in the bed. To know better is to be more body-wise and you cry.

The body cries, it shakes, because it is allowing everything in and therefore is also allowing everything out. The muscles don't know which way to go, the
tension is rife and the shaking is indeed the in vs the out manifesting that tension.

Your breathing hyperventilates and you can't stop the deep sobs and
wailing wails. You try to suppress it but you can't.
Once started the ocean cannot put back the waves;
cannot re-cork the bottle, re-inser the bad memories
because this one, this one body explosion cannot be denied, has come alive, now lives and can never be put back into the body's bottle. The soul explodes not from the mind but from within in the body,
the heart loves and makes the body yield, the spirit moves through body limbs.

You try to get up and walk but you are dizzy,
your legs are too weak.
You don't want to be seen this way, so vulnerable. You may laugh crazily.

Something has possessed you, some power you were previously unaware of
in your body has wrenched you from this planet in an instant and you have lost all control. You lip-bite and twist in that agonized pleasure
only the body can give.
You long to merge with whoever is near. It is the body which reaches out to another body there and clings to it for anchoring against the Swept Away.
I found myself' she said
standing at my own front door unaware of how I had gotten there and my
partner's voice asking if I was alright.?
'That' she said, 'was the most I have ever felt. And the one's who feel it once
many times want it never to happen again.
'That' she said is what is called a Whole Body Orgasm.
'Here's what you do:
First don't do it alone. It might be too much the first time.
Lie back, spread til you feel vulnerable and start long slow breathing
deep inhale, really long slow exhales until you feel your body shudder. Emphasize the long exhale and let the diaphragm soften, but not get hard or rigid.
You should begin to feel dizzy, your body will naturally make pelvic motions.
That is ok.
Stop if you get too dizzy'
No more than ten and then stop. Shouldn't do more than you can handle.
Let the tingling and the dizziness take over your entire body.
Then after slow breathing, try panting, with the same softening diaphragm.
After dizzy you might start to get emotional, want to laugh, want to cry, maybe feel anger, or get scared.
This means you have passed the first step. After all, all orgasms involve breathing heavy.We are talking about doing it right.
More tomorrow on what comes next.