When A Man Cries Poem by Lora Colon

When A Man Cries

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Men strive to appear formidable and strong,
In their castles, they are the lord;
But when a man cries for a woman's love,
These are tears that cannot be ignored

There are those who say a man should not cry,
But when a woman withholds her love,
Loneliness overtakes his aching heart......
Crying is all he's capable of

When he struggles to hold back the tears,
And his blue sky has turned dark gray,
It is then that a woman's smile and touch
Will help him to find his way

If he's crying tears of apology and remorse,
Then she must consider his request;
Show forgiveness, we all fail at times,
A second chance will put his heart at rest

Don't play with his feelings, guard his dignity,
Don't plant seeds of deception and lies;
This can only result in a harvest of woe,
Everything changes, something in him dies

When he's navigating troubled waters alone,
When his soul sinks into dark despair,
Bring the light back to his empty eyes,
Hold him tenderly, show that you care

Don't let him languish in sorrow and pain,
Lift the burden as gently as you can;
The storm is over...... don't deny him your love,
And never ignore the tears of a man!

COMMENTS OF THE POEM
Pradip Chattopadhyay 15 November 2013

never ignore the tears of a man... beautiful poem, Lora, for he should be given a chance for his aching heart!

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Jak Black 24 November 2015

A great poem, Lora. Your husband was a lucky man to have such an understanding wife. A man crying is not a sign of weakness, more a sign of utter despair. Men tend to hide their emotions more and if they break down then something is drastically wrong, as you point out in this poem it is at this time that a little understanding and support works wonders. None of us is an island, Lora, we all need somebody.

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Brian Johnston 18 December 2013

I'm not sure only jilted men cry. Sometimes we have to leave the one we love. Is that not reason for tears? Sometimes Weltsmertz gets us down with feelings of helplessness, rage against God? (what it feels like) and that can bring tears. See Boy At The Window by Richard Wilbur if you want to understand Weltsmertz. A great poem Laura, but it speaks even more to me of your heart than it does of your understanding of men, for which I as a man of course thank you.

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John Brown 30 November 2013

A great poem Lora. Very insightful. Seems you've got us men well and truly sussed - in the right way of course.

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S.zaynab Kamoonpuri 15 November 2013

Tender endearing poem! Indeed when a man cries it is more moving. Its strange that only jilted men cry, for otherwise men r too hardened to cry. But just u threaten to leave n they show u tears. Made me rethink sth personaly, mayb we shudnt ignore their scarce tears. Wondrous rhymin lori. Fond regards.

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S.zaynab Kamoonpuri 15 November 2013

Tender endearing poem! Indeed when a man cries it is more moving. Its strange that only jilted men cry, for otherwise men r too hardened to cry. But just u threaten to leave n they show u tears. Made me rethink sth personaly, mayb we shudnt ignore their scarce tears. Wondrous rhymin lori. Fond regards.

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Lora Colon

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Missouri - United States
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