Marriage; A Decorated Prison Poem by Maureen Nanjala

Marriage; A Decorated Prison

A ring upon the finger, A smile for all to see, A shared name, A house adorned with roses, And bars no one can see.

The walls are painted golden, The vows are dressed in white,
The cage is beautifully furnished, Yet still, a cage at night.

They call it love, They call it forever,
They call the chains commitment, But sometimes even the prettiest Prisons are, prisons nonetheless.

Those within its walls dream of escape.
Those beyond its gates dream of entry.
The prisoners envy the free,
The free envy the warmth within
Everyone wants what they don't have
And perhaps that is the cruelest irony.

POET'S NOTES ABOUT THE POEM
I once watched people enter marriage with dreams in their eyes, convinced that behind those doors waited the happiness they had spent years searching for.Then, years later, I watched some of those same people stand by the window, looking out.They longed for the freedom they had left behind.And outside, the unmarried watched them with envy—believing the decorated home, the shared name, the ring, and the promise of forever were everything they were missing.That was when I realised something about life: Those who are inside often dream of getting out, while those who are outside dream of getting in.Perhaps the prison is not always the marriage. Perhaps sometimes, the prison is simply our belief that happiness exists somewhere else.
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