All It Takes Is Just A Little Trust Poem by Lavigne Kin

I feel chained. In order to save my
relationship, I've made some very
prominent sacrifices in the recent past.
Even after all this, he says he is insecure.
He complains when I wear short dresses to
parties. He dislikes almost all of my guy
friends. I tried convincing him, but he
doesn't budge. Whenever he looses his
cool, he accuses me of all the mean things,
saying he doesn't trust me. This feels
humiliating at times. On some days, I wish
to break free from these chains and be
free to do whatever I want, whenever I
want.
But our love for each other is enough
reason for me to Stay. Obviously we have
had many good times. But these are
outnumbered by the increasing
insecurities. There have been times when I
feel insecure regarding his exes and stuff.
But I never complain. Trust is the very
foundation of a relationship. In order to
love someone, you have to trust them in
the first place. I want a little space. There
are certain things which I want to do
without his nagging. I understand he cares,
but caring too much is often a sign of
insecurity.
'I've learned that it takes
years to build up trust, and it only takes
suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.'
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Guys often tend to get too attached when
it comes to the girl they Love. This is a
common phenomenon. But individually, all
of them have a seperate mentality. Some
hardly care, some trust and let go, others
care way too much. Excess interfearance
senselessly arouses suspicions, which is
unhealthy for a relationship. There is a
mutual disagreement. Girls often feel that
they are being held back by their
relationship. A relationship is not a
boundation, it's a feeling of togetherness, a
feeling of love and concern. Too much
insecurity from one side may cause the
other to break free from the relationship.
When you enter into a relationship, you
promise to be with that person through
thick and thin. You pledge to take care of
each other. Doubting your partner or
accusing them will only harm your
relationship in the long run. She may try to
convince you to trust her, and when she
does, obey her. A girl may accept all what
you say patiently. But a day will come
when this patience will end, and she will
break free. And once a girl is freed from
such a relationship, she may not return.
Love means a lot to a girl. But no girl
accepts a relationship at the cost of her
freedom. If you had the strength to love,
have the courage to trust.
' To be trusted is a greater compliment
than to be loved.'