Brother Today, Father Tomorrow — Allowed Anomaly for Onwurah Nwoye Egbuonu 13 Years Old In 1946,41 Years Old In 1974 1933 - 1974 Poem by Tony Cemaluk

Brother Today, Father Tomorrow — Allowed Anomaly for Onwurah Nwoye Egbuonu 13 Years Old In 1946,41 Years Old In 1974 1933 - 1974

He was thirteen,
Not man, not child,
Palm-wine still fresh in his father's gourd
When the tree took him.

1946.
Grandfather climbed to honor an in-law's Ozo,
Fell as he lived — providing for others.

Many wives, many children,
And a boy of thirteen left standing:
Onwurah Nwoye Egbuonu.

Then custom entered the compound.

The Di Okpala came,
Already a man, already blessed with means,
And by ikuchi nwanyi,
Took his father's wives
To keep the family together,
They said.

Allowed.
Customary.
Lawful.

But who explains law
To a thirteen-year-old heart?

Brother Today,
Father Tomorrow,
Allowed Anomaly.

Yesterday, he called him Brother.
Today, the same doorway,
The same wrapper,
The same voice that once called him Nwanne,
Now answers to another title
In his mother's hut.

Mother still cooks,
But not as before.
Mother still there,
But not as alone.

Where does a boy put that pain
When culture says do not cry?

He swallowed it.
And the swallowed knife
Became backbone.

That is why later,
His title would mean:
If a king speaks truth and justice, I agree,
If not, I never will.

Because at thirteen he learned:
Custom can wound,
Elders can be wrong,
Truth must be defended,
Even if it costs life.

He carried that silence
To his own marriage to Cecilia,
To his own children,
To planting season 1974
When at 41 he too died defending truth.

Brother Today,
Father Tomorrow,
Allowed Anomaly —

But the seed survived.
The wound became witness.

From the thirteen-year-old of 1946,
To the forty-one-year-old who fell in planting season,
To the six-year-old who became harvest,
To the lineage that will never lose both —

The anomaly is no longer allowed to repeat.

CEMALUK | ODNNNN

Wednesday, September 23, 2026
POET'S NOTES ABOUT THE POEM
Author's Note: Dedicated to my father Onwurah Nwoye Egbuonu (1933-1974) , aged 41 years. At 13 years old in 1946, he lost his father to a palm-tree fall while honoring an in-law's Ozo title. He then witnessed ikuchi nwanyi, where the Di Okpala took his father's wives to keep the family together. Earlier oral account from my mother recorded his death age as 39. Verified family history confirms 1933 to 1974 = 41 years. This correction supersedes all earlier 39-year entries. This poem is his truth, told not to shame any father or compound, but to ensure no child is told to call pain culture. By Tony Cemaluk
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