Difficulties Poem by andy Kill green

hi
i am dad
i have a family

this is my problem

arguments never lead anywhere
discussion is unnecessary
fights are meaningless

i can't handle an argument,
i can't watch a discussion
i have never fought

diagnosis:
passive and incompetent father

arguments and discussion and fights
are all big parts of the family life

is it not?

reason:
i have never watched my parents discuss, argue, fight
i have never watched my parents hug, kiss or make love

i can not discuss, argue, fight with my wife
i can not hug, kiss or make love with my wife

these things needs to be learned

nobody learned me