Far too often, we stand as hasty gardeners, pruning the lives of others with shears of judgment, unaware of the roots that twist beneath the surface. We see only the wilted leaves, the crooked branches, and mistake them for the entirety of the tree. Yet, how little we know of the storms they've weathered, the soil they've grown in, or the seasons that have shaped their existence. Our eyes, clouded by the fog of our own biases, fail to see the blossoms hidden in the shadows, the strength in the scars, the beauty in the struggle.
What if we paused, knelt down, and touched the earth from which they rise? What if we listened to the whispers of their stories, carried on the wind like seeds seeking fertile ground? For every life is a garden, cultivated by choices we may not understand, watered by tears we may never see. Who are we to declare which flowers should bloom, which paths should wind, which seasons should come and go?
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