Your Love Poem by Justin Reamer

If you want to understand
How a relationship works, my friend,
And especially if you desire
A certain man like me,
You have to understand what a
True relationship is like,
In order to engage into
Anything close to what you
Try to do to me.

My friend, you are very beautiful,
And you are very cute,
And you are one of the sweetest
People I have ever met,
And I will always care about
You no matter what,
But, if you want to know
What a relationship is like,
It is not like the physical
Hot-flashy stuff that you are used to,
But so much more than that.

A relationship is emotional,
When two people are always happy
To see each other every day,
And never want to leave each other's company,
Because they are so tightly knit together,
And the love comes in when they
Decide when they truly do care about each other,
As more than just average-Joe friends.
They then get serious,
And start making more physical contact,
Instead of just holding hands,
Which is an indication of a crush only,
And an indication of attraction.

When they decide that they are in love,
They start to do more than that,
Such as hugging and kissing,
And a peck on the cheek,
And a peck on the lips.
Simple kissing is even more meaningful,
For it reveals a big smile from both people
In a relationship,
Which makes it all the more special.

When they get even more serious,
They might go into the first kiss,
And that is when they are ready,
For they go into it prepared,
Ready to do something
Instead of coming on too strong,
Or doing the hot, passionate relationship
That you are used to.
They will go into snogging,
Or tonsil-hockey,
Or French kissing,
And they may enjoy it,
Or they may say that they were not ready yet.
But the line stops there,
For they will not have sex until they are married,
And they will not engage in anything beyond that point
Until they may be affianced,
Or even married.
The Sexual Intercourse will
Not come until the honeymoon.

My friend, I do not want a sexual
Relationship with you,
And on the contrary,
I want your love.
I want an emotional relationship,
Where I can always spend time with you,
And know that you and I can be together
For as long as we want,
And that we both care about each other,
And that we hold something special in the world.

I do not want something that will end
Automatically,
And I do not want to get heartbreak because of it,
And I do not want to be regretful
Of a mortal sin I may commit if I
Were not in control of myself.
But, truthfully, I love your soul and your heart,
More than I love your flesh,
Even though you are still a very beautiful
Woman on the outside,
You are a very beautiful woman on the inside.

I know you apologised for coming on too strong,
And I really do forgive you for that,
But I want to let you know that I care about you,
And that I want what's best for you,
And that I want you to be happy,
And that I want you to be safe
By staying away from this miserable lifestyle,
Like the one my own father lives,
And I want you to be happy
And not develop Borderline Personality Disorder,
When you can have true friends,
And possibly, a boyfriend that you can count on.

In order for us to be
In a relationship, my dear,
You have to know what you want.
I care about you,
And you know not what you want,
And you are confused when
It comes to relationships.
This is not New Jersey, my dear,
For this is the Midwest,
And we do things differently here.
However, you have to know what you want.

When I watched 'Love and Other Drugs, '
I knew that life was more than just sex,
And misery and simple feelings,
For it was devotion.
Anne Hathaway, who played the
Character who had Parkinson's Disease,
Fell in love with a guy who played
Around with everyone,
And the guy finally fell in love with her.

When the guy went off
To pursue his job,
Hathaway left,
And the guy chased her,
And realised that he loved her,
And that he wanted her more than anything
Else in the world, even if she was sick or not.
They then made up and embraced in the end.

My friend, you must understand
That you have to pay attention to certain things.
Do not follow the desires of the flesh,
But follow the desires of the Spirit.
Your body, which is corrupted by Satan
And original sin from Adam and Eve,
As St Paul wrote in Romans,
Desires many things,
Such as revenge,
Hunger and thirst,
Lust and sex,
Aggression and fear,
And intimidation.
Do not follow what your body wants,
But listen to your heart,
Your soul, and your conscience,
And know what it wants,
And you will know what you want,
For your heart will guide you
On the right path,
Whether or you are
Looking for a relationship or not.

You may know what you want,
But you just have to do some
Self-searching,
So that you can figure it out.
And, if you want to be with me, my love,
You have to understand
That I want an emotional bond
That will stick us together
And will keep us together
Unless something should go horribly wrong.
I want you to know that I would always be
Loyal and giving to you,
In all of your forms,
And that I will always care about you,
No matter what decisions you make,
Or what behaviour you display.

But, if you want to be with me,
I want you to know that I want your love,
And I want your devotion,
As I would be devoted to you,
And I want your loyalty,
As I would be loyal to you
And would never cheat on you,
And would always stand up for you,
No matter the situation,
And I want your heart,
For it can be nothing,
If we cannot bond in that way,
And if we cannot hold each other
In our hearts,
And we cannot reveal our secrets
To each other,
And we cannot sacrifice
Or give anything to each other.
I want that kind of relationship,
And I want your love
More than anything.

I will always love you,
And I will always care about you,
But you have to know what you want,
So this is what I have to say to you,
And I hope you understand me,
For I do not want to do anything that will hurt you,
And if in a relationship,
I want to know that we will always be together
And that there will be trust between us.

So, know thyself,
And do what you can,
But let me tell you,
That I love you,
And that I care about you,
And nothing will ever change that.

May God bless you, my love!