I am a forty years old lady
And I am still a virgin
That may sound really crazy
But it is surely not a sin.
My virginity is my treasure
Its sanctity is without measure
I have kept it for the one I will marry
But marriage has decided to tarry.
I grew up with my pious grandmother
Who talked a lot about fidelity
To her, there can never be a worst blunder
Than a single lady losing her virginity.
I have dated a couple of men
Most of whom don't have respect for women
Some came close to defiling me
But magically, I was able to flee.
Now that I am forty, I am worried
As all my friends are getting married
Even the ones that were considered wayward
Have received the marriage award.
Some men dumped me for being a virgin
Others chided me in ways I cannot imagine
They say all sorts of things to get me upset
"Take it to the bank if you think is an asset".
Is virginity a limitation?
Does it hinder nuptial conjugation?
Am I not married because I refused to surrender?
This questions and many more is making me wonder.
Frank Adie
This poem has not been translated into any other language yet.
I would like to translate this poem
Am I not married because I refused to surrender.Great daring thought depicted in the poem. Thanks for sharing.