If You Only Knew, Bought The Shoes Bought The Hat. Poem by Shirley Morgan

In summary, we judge people by the clothes, jobs, cars or where they live. Sometimes a person might miss out on the love of their life because they are looking at the outward appearance instead of trying to bring out the best of a person.
I'm not saying spend all of your time trying to help that person validate himself with yourself.
because with some people that's work in progress and is usually is not going to happen.
Sometimes I think it is innate for humans to judge but from reading we might need to start thinking outside of the box and don't let that love, past you by.
If you meet a person and that person likes you for who you are, try loving that person back.
Women or men I'm not saying lower your standards but get with somebody who accept your inner soul and try to build on what makes you both happy together. Like Teddy Pendergrass use to sing ' It's so good loving somebody when somebody loves you back'
So in closing, ' Don't worry be happy.'