Young and starry eyed,
Marriage can take you,
Completely by surprise.
Visions of a fine romance,
...
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Marriages fail mostly because there are no "designer boys" or "designer girls" around. All we have some qualities you cherish and more qualities you detest. When you are in love, you see only the good ones.
Part 2. After marriage, you notice the qualities you detest one by one. Too much of expectations, thus failed.
How very true! 43 years for me. I definitely deserve a medal! xx