people who love war are not normally soldiers
fighting in wars getting arms legs blown off hurts
surviving with disfigured faces disfigured souls
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first no choice get a job now
grows into time experience skills
more freedom in future choice
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until we make peace with ourselves
we shall always have the potential
to evoke escalation conflict in others;
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ask not will I be able to pay the bills?
ask not will I be able to support the house?
just turn off electricity buy less food?
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better to save money for a rainy day?
better to pay bills buy food then play?
better to work two jobs or longer hours in a day?
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