Which Is Real Love - Natural Or Traditional? Poem by Ramesh T A

Which is real - love before marriage or love after marriage?
First is natural and free, next is necessity with responsibility;
First is romantic in nature, next is classical in nature;
First is emotional one, next is traditional and usual one!

Natural love is real and spontaneous, but traditional love is not;
Natural love blooms at first sight and traditional one is very slow;
Natural love is fast between two persons and also hate comes fast;
Traditional love pursuit is slow and steady enduring to the last..!

Natural love is painful pleasure, whereas traditional one is not so;
Natural love is hot and very passionate, but traditional one is cold;
Natural love has quick response for all, but traditional one is not so;
Natural love is sensible and sensuous, but traditional one is senseless!

First love in life is immortal even if it fails changing life course;
But traditional love making is effect-less and makes life dull ever!