A Chauvinistic Male? Poem by Joseph Anderson
A Chauvinistic Male?
Long years ago we said our vows,
Which ended with a kiss;
In thinking on those years, I see
Some trials, some tears and bliss.
I oft time lead in many ways,
But sometime lean on her;
Though mutual sharing is our goal,
That oft does not occur.
My friends think I'm aggressive,
That seems my natural bent;
We walk the married road, perhaps
The way God surely meant.
Our children honor and respect,
That greatly pleases us;
The tender harmony we share
Is an even greater plus.
Please pardon, please this age'ed male,
Raised in a different clime;
Forgive him for he has become
A symbol of his time.
Both praise or criticism would be
appreciated. Perhaps it would clear my mind.
I think Chauvinistic means not having respect for women, thinking them inferior. Not by leading or being supportive. If you feel you are too aggressive in the relationship, that is something you can change. A good solid poem, written about years of marraige and about someone you still love and care about. Now that's something to brag about.
The tender harmony we share, tells all in this fantastic poem Sir, such a wonderful read, thank you, you really in no way sound Chauvinistic to me.
Was not expecting to read this giving the title, but it delivered something else entirely, you articulate the grace of marriage so well that you give that institution hope in those who believe in commitment. A glorious read, that celebrate cooperation and interdependence of that union.
Joseph, A truly enjoyed poem. The sanctity of marriage is a two way street. Sounds like you met the love of your life on that street. Thanks.
Wow that was really great! A subject no one wants to discuss but you did a great job with your expressions!
yes, a very good rhythm. I suppose us Chauvinists are off trend at the moment but we'll be back! I reckon you got it just right. Seems to have worked in your case. Mine too! Tom Billsborough Ps I reckon they got your age wrong. Bet you're 21
Very reflective Joe. We walk the same road. The meter runs easily, tripping off the tongue and making for one of those reads which creep in and catch you in the throat. (P.S. As you already know, my parrot is of a like mind) :)
You seem no more a chauvinist than most men Joe. It's just the way we men are, and our traits are built into our DNA. This is not an excuse for bad behaviour, but sometimes we have to be tough, and aggressive, and it is all too often a frustrating and precarious balancing act.
sounds like a near perfect marriage. a good read. enjoyed this one.
This poem has not been translated into any other language yet.
I would like to translate this poem
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12/5/2025 1:17:01 AM # 1.0.0
I love the sincere reflection that goes on. If just more of us could reflect on what is good and what is not in our life, the world would look oh so different. Excellent piece of poetry.