Love happens naturally. Love happens as south breeze touches; as flowers bloom; as moon-light cools; as sunshine warms; as affectionate and dear touch soothes; as rivers flow; as currents swirl; as waves drench; as rains pour; as bliss fills; as peace descends and as Divinity obliges and illumines. Loving is a delightful human trait. The one who is not drenched by rain and who has not fallen in love does not exist.
Next time you fall in love, ask yourself: is this hedonistic love. Or a role-bound
relationship?
Simon Watts of Nottingham Trent university and Paul Stenner of university college London analyzed the nature of modern love by asking 34 men and 16 women to agree or disagree with a set of 60 propositions. They identified nine varieties of love, reported in the British Journal of Social Psychology today. They are:
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very true... you have shared a very great, wonderful prose.. fruitful thoughts.. 10+++++ lovelots, Maia
to a BLUE World to detect smiles in all eyes to enlight all faces bringing a little PURE LOVE in this Earth. we are! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! what are we? do are we here to love or to be loved or to consume love or to give love or to feel love or to exchange love? ? ? ? ? ? ? in this life every Human Being cries his past, holds his present but wants the future. love is an abstract concept, volumes and volumes can't express its meaning (it's a whole complicated feelings and behaviors) but there are tests as you mentioned above which tries to enlighten a bit this mysterious feeling. I am trying too to highlight my opinion about LOVE (the most mysterious feeling) Charity reveals the desire of a PURE love. any other concept out of CHARITY disfigures the PURE love Love between Man&Woman is consumable. Love between Man&Woman should begin through spiritualization and the spitualization begins through learning freedom as you said 'It should be exchanged freely' Love begins freely but when it is in growth, others concepts are in growth too. all things develop to complexity. the freedom is turned off, the dependance is turned on. the trust is turned off, the suspicion is turned on. the happiness is turned off, the sadness is turned on. the REASON is turned off, the madness is turned on. the wisdom is turned off, the stupidity is turned on Love may offer us Happiness for 1 day,1 month,1 year,2...... or 5 years but never expect that it will last for lifetime. Man&Woman are always in fight even if they are in Love. their behaviors are in conflict but Man can't live without Woman and vice versa. does you discern the complexity? there is another kind of Love the Absolute Pure Love. Spiritual Love. GOD's LOVE. this kind is surrounded by purity and charity and it offers us lifetime Happiness, it is out of betrayal, out of infidelity, out of injure, out of hurts, out of wounds.............................. it is the perpetual flowering. it was just an iota about LOVE. With PeaCe&LoVe