Stay Focused Poem by Deidre Dixon

The time for you to go away to embark on a whole new part of life is near
As you go to your chosen university to study for a degree in preparation of your career

Feelings of excitement, fear and curiosity must be overtaking you at this time
As you think about leaving your family, friends, your home and all things familiar behind

I know how you feel because I remember how I felt when I went away years ago
I was so frightened and intimidated and overwhelmed by all of the things I did not know

It is because of my experience and the many mistakes that I made back in the day
That I want to advise and encourage you to please stay focused while you are away

Going away to college apart from your family is a whole lot different than going to high school
There's a whole lot of temptation like those fine brothas and sistas who think they can make you out of a fool

It's not just the fine brothas and sistas, but there are so many other distractions that you will face
There are frat parties, concerts, hanging with friends and so many things that will come to take you away

Stay focused on the reason you are going to college and the future you desire when you are done
It is so easy to get sidetracked, off course and with your studies find yourself straying away from

Because I care and want you to succeed, I had to break it down for you in laymen's terms
‘Cause there are so many "wolves in sheep's clothing" out there who you should learn to discern

Be discerning about associations with the many different acquaintances you will make
Be kind to everyone, but people's character is something into consideration you must take

It is good to be around those who are handling their business when it comes to school
Being accepted by others is alright, but getting those grades and graduating is what's really cool

Most of all, make sure you pray daily and stay close to God while you are away
It is your relationship with Him that will keep you focused on what you must do each day

Before you know it, you will be marching across that stage receiving honors with your degree
Because you stayed focused while you were away at school, your success is what everyone will see