The Divorce Poem by VAIDYANATHAN.T. RAM

We should inculcate in our children the capacity and maturity to identify/recognise every other person, including the spouse, as another individual, who needs his/her own space. In our generation, we had many siblings in the family. Close relatives come and live with us and we visit them/live with them too. So, the need for sharing and opportunity to co-exist. But, now we have all 'nuclear families'. Single child. She/he is the king emperor/queen of the family and occupies the entire space. Does not share anything with anybody. This mental make-up makes it difficult for the children to share the life with others, even the spouse. Sociologists should think aloud how to address this malady. Nice poem Rem. Thanks.100+

The question you ask is Why a divorce? If the couple understands each other then there is no question of divorce. It is only when misunderstandings and misgivings emerge between the couple, then separation happens. It is a painful emotion. Ram! you have posed pertinent questions. Well, for that a full vote! through your poems

In this poem, 'Why a Divorce? ', Mr. V.R. Ayyar has enumerated all the positive things between the couple. There must at least be a negative aspect. That alone is enough to divide a wedge between the two. But this poem can make an appeal to the couple which seek divorce on flimsy grounds. The poet is very good in analysing things. Best Wishes Mr. Ayyar.

Since you have the capability of rectifying the mistakes of each other. .... this is the most probability resolve that can avoid divorce. A beautiful poem that can drive the family members to a best family track. Thanks for sharing.