Take Control Poem by Lucia Domingos Fula

Starting to get tired of being a man in the relationship. Coming up with everything. Stressing. I can't take it, yet you call yourself a man.

No.1: Fix yourself
No.2: Look at the mirror and leave that stupid ego aside
No.3: Learn how to speak to a woman, if you don't respect your mother well u might aswell marry yourself. Cause no woman would scoop so low to give you a discount. Cuteness doesn't buy loyalty neither does it buy marriage.

No.4: Stop praising yourself, you ain't ****.
No.5: Learn to respect yourself in order to gain respect.
No.6: Love yourself otherwise no one will love you.
No.7: Put yourself in someone else's shoe before you judge. By the way God didn't hire you to be his part time judge assistant. You're human, act like one. Imperfect.

No.8: Grow up, Man up.stop acting like you wear the dress in this relationship. Be mature about things and situations.
No.9: Learn to be positive, negativity isn't gonna get you anywhere. Accept change, it's good to change it healthy for the soul.

No.10: Be a leader, not a follower. Your friends shouldn't influence you all the time. At times say no. Also know that it's your relationship not theirs. Their opinion doesn't matter because we are not sharing the woman. I'm not their girl, I'm yours.

Note to you: When you have the woman you wished for, keep her up on her feet. Make her smile more often. Act as if you are still trying to get her. The way you use to before. A woman is a flower and she deserves to be watered right and grow beautiful and natural. Without you watering it, it will die. No attention she will lose interest.