Recently we've been hearing a lot about women "having it all." Myself, I think that is not really an accurate description of female lives today. It seems to me that what we have been up to is DOING it...Sylvia Hewlett (20th century), U.S. author. originally quoted in Barnard Alumnae, no. 9 (Summer 1985). A Lesser Life, ch. 17 (1987).