~ Mom By Default Rape ~ - Poem by MS. NIVEDITA BAGCHI SPC. UK.

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NOTE: I'm sorry to say today I find PH like before [as in case of 'I Want To Be Raped'] again banned this poem as I find it is not in my poetry I've made some typographical change and reposted it and some comments already posted by Hon'ble Readers I'm posting here ~ niv

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Ms. Nivedita

We're moms of
Wars, libido voracity
Of horny ‘society' too. [1]

Salacious raunchy
Soldiers iconoclasts
Soldered penetrated us
In forceful way into…! [2]

Millions are rearing
Kids with all love
Millions are on
The queue. [3]

Our children
Will be known in
Moms' identity. [4]

We want
Our kids
Be not
Or rape victim. [5]

We victims
Why 'only' solicit
Clichéd consolation
In slut walk? [6]

Sure we're
Our sons
Will by-default be
Male slut walker
For a paradigm shift! [7]

To symbolically
Absolve penance
Of: XY. [8]

This slut walk
Will tumefy in
Slut march
Swell into
Antarctic glacier
Finally inundate
Deluge whole world
To assuage menace. [9]

Path of victory
Is time tested
Gandhian avant-garde
Protest thro'
Non Violence! ! [10]

We're proud
Moms of kids
By Default Rape! ! ! [11]

Oy civilized society
Can you hear us? [12]

Poet's Notes about The Poem

‘War's Impact on Children Born of Rape and Sexual Exploitation':
R. Charli Carpenter ~ Assistant Professor
Graduate School of Public and International Affairs
University of Pittsburgh,

[1] Who are ‘War Babies'?
According to a report by from the War and Children Identity Project in Bergen, Norway, tens of thousands of infants have been born of wartime rape or sexual exploitation in the last decade alone [Grieg,2001].

[2] The Grieg Report estimates the number of all living war babies at 500,000 [Grieg,2001: 7].

Sexual violence and exploitation are endemic in war-affected regions, and children are often produced as a result. It has been estimated that tens of thousands of children have resulted from mass rape campaigns or sexual exploitation during times of war in the last decade alone.
According to anecdotal reports and available evidence, these 'war babies' often face stigma, discrimination…. Children born as a result of war are entitled to the same rights as other children, outlined in the Convention on the Rights of the Child.


[Please note I've no such data on By Default Raped Moms other than wars till date, if readers can throw light please post in comment

The tragedy is 3rd world country women are helpless because they don't get any support neither from society not form governments

I've a data that in USA every 2 minutes a woman is is 1st world country [read BOSS] of world in spite so much power and police &c resources they've failed to cut down percentage

Finally one info maximum rape in African counties specially in Congo which ticks high in percentage and it is utter regrettable in Africa Gang-Rape [one woman is raped by many] is frequent occurrences.

Unfortunately we civilized men air sterile and futile sermons



[On the eve of Slut Walk in Kolkata, [India] against RAPE this poem is humbly dedicated ~ niv]

Ms. Nivedita
May 23,2012

Glossary: Humbly given for what I tried to express: ~
[1]By default: An unexpected result [a.k.a. destined to]

[2] XY: To denote male [chromosomal]

[3]Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi: Political and spiritual leader during India's struggle with Great Britain for home rule; an advocate of passive resistance = non-violence [1869-1948]

[4]: Avant-garde: Active in the innovation and application of new concepts and techniques in a given field.


Comments about ~ Mom By Default Rape ~ by MS. NIVEDITA BAGCHI SPC. UK.

  • Abdulrazak Aralimatti (11/14/2016 11:29:00 AM)

    Verily, the poem depicts the saga of suffering of the war victims who were forcefully betrayed and left to live a life of guilt whereas the true guilty felt themselves victorious and this is the greatest shame on so called civilized. (Report) Reply

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  • Pen Anthony (7/15/2015 10:44:00 AM)

    A wave of emotions hits you with every stanza (Report) Reply

  • (4/1/2013 5:07:00 PM)

    Path of victory
    Is time tested
    Gandhian avant-garde
    Protest thro'
    Non Violence...

    Don't tell me you agree with non-violence.

    We're proud
    Moms of kids....

    where does the pride come from? Proud of what? What happened forcefully was nothing but DIRT, a murder of the soul, the mind and the body and that's all. No glorification, then why glorify it? How can PRIDE even be anywhere close to the COMPLETE DIRT done to a woman?

    Sorry But I differ totally.

    Crimes like RAPES are an epidemic, it needs violence, stricter laws. Putting the blame on women's clothing is a nonsensical excuse, a man will rape any woman he can find at that time. Delhi is the rape capital and Haryana the rape village, and that's India. NO you can't change the culture, that's impossible, or change the mindset, another impossible. However, if there atleast were stricter laws, men wouldn't dare. Perhaps then, life would have been better for women who are (when not victims) in a state of constant dread and alarm. The world, India esp. would perhaps, be a place for everyone, but what can not happen will not happen and that's all the truth there is! !

    Though I truly admire your presentation of wars and how it effects the women and the children. War is the time when nothing, nothing at all can hinder crimes! Very thoughtful and empathetic.
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  • (11/29/2012 8:40:00 AM)

    To say that the level of emotional conflict presented here is overwhelming is an extreme understatement. Yet I see hope through this vale of disharmony, tears and sorrow. Man's true source of being and groundedness is woman. Again, I must congratulate you on your eloquence with verbal frugality. (Report) Reply

  • Karoliena Somura (11/27/2012 6:04:00 PM)

    Moving, , and I learned something new (Report) Reply

  • (10/6/2012 3:43:00 PM)

    ** ORIGINAL MESSAGE ********************
    From: Psaltydog *
    To: Nivedita [poet Under Threat Of Editorial Cannibalism
    Date-Time: 10/5/2012 12: 51: 00 PM (GMT -6: 00)
    Subject: Walking the line
    My hat's off to you and your courage. Sometimes the point of a pen can become a very slippery slope.

    Your cause has been heard and rightly so. War brings out the worst in the human condition while the innocent are the ones to suffer.

    Have you ever stepped back and just looked at where we (humanity) are at with our greed and perversion? Then, so casually, turn our backs on a poor and starving world.



    Posted thro' kindness of AB London as I'm blocked to post by wise PH
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  • (10/4/2012 3:22:00 AM)

    Niv, thanks for the invite to read your poems! Very punk rock to stand up and speak out against the spineless fools known as rapists. The reason governments don't do anything about this terror is because a government is the ultimate rapist, of women, men, and children alike! ! ! The goal of any government is to use force first, to aquire power. the spirit of domination and exploitation lives in every government-loving, cop-loving fascist on Earth. long live the underdog! (Report) Reply

  • Allemagne Roßmann (7/22/2012 4:07:00 PM)

    Rape is the crux of Christianity achieved through Islam.Judaism is a teacher who is blamed not being abrahamic or brahmin enough to teach people either sides of rape as to when its rapine and when grapevine with juices presumed to be sweeter than grape varieties.Hinduism did put victims them in pyres brahminically or people were re-raped to establish the binary adder logic of Vedas that an impure non-Brahmin vagina is purified with sperms sprayed from group of or individual brahmin lingums or bulls depending on the importance of rape assets.Buddhism sprayed dirty river water on soiled emotions somewhat like Shivaites and Sadhus in the mountains who claim they could defeat black porno men in respective projectile sizes of sperm cannon nozzles.Zoroastrinism petrified the rape by putting it high on a tree thinking that nature would decide.Bird shits would purify it coz birds live on nature, rain would wash the stench and the rest would be raw materials for the tree whose fruits savoured will be prasadam.Jainism gave freedom of air.Here a rape victim could eat whatever whichever sausage she likes in exchange of her sauces and open her guts to be a smell of eternity better like the flowery frankiscence so artificial.So goes the moms of ages.They are beckoned for bestowing respect not really meant from inside.Otherwise they were or are devoured and savoured momos.Their piss is pure riverine-holy drinkable, their sultanninens and cherries licked for heavenly abode, their departments are touched and worked upon for time pass as well.The question remains why not nobody eats the undigested material coming out of a side taken pleasure by drillers to drill in.They contain also bile pigments.Orange in colour.Yellowy brown pigmentations.In nature they are add to vitamins.But in human, not aphrodisiacs or libido.So by default mode rape. (Report) Reply

  • (7/4/2012 5:39:00 PM)

    A unique style, with a good socially conscious message. Pretty good stuff (Report) Reply

  • (6/16/2012 12:59:00 PM)

    First I strongly condemn PH for Vicarious Vaulting the poet refraining her to post In Box comments of other poets and she has to take help from reader for the same...PH can you listen me? as still I don't find any rejoinder for PH of the post of AB 13.06.12...why? ? ?

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    About the poem.... I must say this poet is using her skill to be a vehicle to 'make-alive' slothful society

    Yeah instead of being timid these proud moms rearing their kids without any help from any where and clearly voicing at high decibel, 'We're proud/ Moms of kids/By Default Rape'...hats off to such Moms

    Poet finishing with, 'Oy civilized society/Can you hear us? ' because she is skeptical about societies indurated callousness to such problems

    Congrats to poet such a brave poem in spite constrained by diplomatic dogmatic PH

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  • Ebi Robert (6/13/2012 6:02:00 PM)

    What else can i say? Well done! (Report) Reply

  • Ebi Robert (6/13/2012 6:00:00 PM)

    What else can i say? Well done! (Report) Reply

  • (6/13/2012 11:29:00 AM)

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  • (6/13/2012 11:03:00 AM)

    I totally agree with Poet Prateep Sengupta

    Women both in civil-life and in war field are crispy cuisine...for libidinous erotic psychopaths

    Poet's contention and aim at to point out 'Horny Society [civil-life] iconoclasts who do the mischief and damage

    In developed country there're scopes for MTP [Medical Termination Of Pregnancy but in poorest country such scopes are scare and rare

    The psychic damage done by rape is irreparable

    There are still some BRAVE WOMEN who are as Poet calls Mom By Default Rape...rear and upbringing children

    High and tall talks are aired by many International Agencies NGO [Non Government Organization] but they scarcely reach these poor moms

    Poet has taken up the challenge thro' 'Non Violence' just a way to draw attention of media and like a wake-up call

    Finally Poet concludes, 'Oy civilized society/Can you hear us? ‘...are we hearing are we serious by heart for them?


    It is very empathic poem distilled out of an empathic poet


    Finally a word to officials of PH...Why this poet has to take help of readers [like me] to post her In-Box comments? I'd appreciate if PH writes me in this open forum [here under this poem] then we'll have chance of debate...I'd not entertain any In-Box message of mine...Hey PH come forward...AB London


    Copy to PH
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  • Cierrah Smiles (6/10/2012 12:51:00 PM)

    Brave poem
    -cierrah --
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  • (6/8/2012 4:06:00 AM)

    To most of the readers of this site, you are known for exceptional originality, courage to take up the issues that others are often afraid of. It is essential that Hon'ble Editor of PH read between the lines of a poem rather than be choosy or prejudiced merely against some words. With this poem you have thrown a challenge to the civilized world that has not been able to do away with the crimes against women. We need to question ourselves - are we really civilized? Life is indeed the primary raw material of all art and poetry is no exception. You have taken your materials from life. Whenever there is war, communal riots, ethnic clashes - along with brutality and murder, there is another thing - sexual assault on women. I was a young boy in 'seventies and recall still how bestially the Pakisthan soldiers violated thousands of girls and women in Bangladesh. Same thing also occurred in Vietnam. It is still going on in some African countries. Why this could happen? The world community never asked - we never wanted justice for the victims and punishment of the culprits. But when Nivedita raises the issue through poetry there are many to criticize her, many in favour of banning her poetry. This is the real irony of human civilization. Instead of being puritan about some words and expression my appeal to the Editors to consider the social importance of the issues being raised by Nivedita. All the best wishes for you Niv, you are really prolific. (Report) Reply

  • (6/7/2012 1:15:00 PM)

    ** ORIGINAL MESSAGE ********************
    From: Anita Sehgal
    To: Nivedita [poet Under Threat Of Editorial Cannibalism
    Date-Time: 6/6/2012 11: 33: 00 PM (GMT -6: 00)
    Subject: Re: Re: Mom By Default Rape
    Dear Nivedita,
    It is very courageous to pick up such socially relevant issues affecting the innocent. well done!


    Posted by courtesy of AB London
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  • Jitendra Kumar Sahoo (6/7/2012 1:08:00 AM)

    YOU ARE A BRAVE POET! ! ! I SALUTE YOU............for your work! (Report) Reply

  • (6/6/2012 11:23:00 AM)

    ** ORIGINAL MESSAGE ********************
    From: Wrathin Chowdhry
    To: Nivedita [poet Under Threat Of Editorial Cannibalism
    Date-Time: 6/5/2012 3: 14: 00 AM (GMT -6: 00)
    Subject: Re: Re: Mom By Default Rape
    Hi! Nivedita,
    Totally agree with you if emotions & expressions are restrained it defeats the purpose of the poet


    Posted by courtesy of AB London
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  • (6/5/2012 9:18:00 PM)

    I agree with your work. wooman should not be used a horny toys as the ways of men think of us in society today (: All salutes g oout to the mothers by default rape (: God bless (Report) Reply

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Poem Submitted: Friday, May 25, 2012

Poem Edited: Wednesday, May 30, 2012

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