Suitable Wife Poem by Malabika Ray Choudhury

Suitable Wife

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At twenty-one, Rani had many marriage proposals,
Too many, too hard to decide!
Men with high education, men with charming personalities, and men from affluent families,
Who were looking for a suitable wife!

Rani was a pretty girl, with a flawless skin
And a soul with empathy, love and respect,
A captivating smile made her irresistible,
Definitely those suitors were eager to please her,
And win her heart!

But when Rani's Father met the mother of the most successful prospective groom,
with a zillion degrees in his resume,
She asked - is your daughter fair like Snow White?
Because that's what I am looking for!

To spend on the wedding reception
The next family asked for rupees ten thousand,
Rani's Father was shocked, and horrified,
and heart-broken too!
Dowry? for the greatest blessing in his life,
Who he raised the way King Janaka raised his daughter, Sita,
After the Saint-King found her from the earth!
And imagined a great man will hold her hand!

He was the proudest father,
Who didn't hesitate to declare - my daughter is a gem,
She is an avid reader, and she writes poems,
Painting and singing are her passions,
She looked after her ailing grandparents
Care when they needed!

Who bothers about reading and writing,
Who reads sentimental poems, anyway?
Have you bought an upscale house for my son to live?
The house should be in an affluent area too,
Definitely that's what my son deserves!

Rani's Father heaved a sigh,
And said - perhaps my daughter is not fortunate enough
To be included in your clan,
Probably she is destined for a different future,
Perhaps my daughter shouldn't marry anyone.

Friday, October 4, 2019
Topic(s) of this poem: women,women empowerment
POET'S NOTES ABOUT THE POEM
For this poem, we really have to know and understand the customs and cultures of some countries, where marriage used to be a matter of family decision. The culture is changing, hasn't completely yet. This custom of arranged marriages used to bring a lot of suffering, sorrow, hardships for the brides and the bride's family!
COMMENTS OF THE POEM
Unnikrishnan E S 04 October 2019

Hi Malabika A simple poem, simple narrative of a beautiful story. I am a proud father of a wonderful daughter. I could bring her up as a strong, self reliant responsible lady. And married to an equally good boy. But, had they asked for dowry, sure, I too would have taken the same decision as your protagonist.

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Malabika Ray Choudhury 04 October 2019

Hello Poet, so good to know you are such a proud father! Father-daughter relationship is one of the most iconic one! Thanks always!

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Kingsley Egbukole 04 October 2019

Cultures differ. The idea of families arranging marriages for their children cannot guarantee true live and peace. Good poem. Please kindly check my poems " Hope" and " The beauty of death" Kingsley Egbukole

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Malabika Ray Choudhury 04 October 2019

You are right - cultures differ, and sometimes systems like arranged marriages work! But mutual respect is the key, and women have suffered too long! I will definitely check your poems. Thank you for reading mine!

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