Balance Between Marriages And Divorces! Poem by Ramesh T A

Balance Between Marriages And Divorces!

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Marriages and divorces are balancing with each other nowadays!
Why should there be so many divorces so early and fast now?
Are the marriages made from blind love without any guarantee?
It looks so funny to read about such loves, marriages and divorces!

Divorced men and women are again loving and marrying afterwards!
This is also quite ridiculous to see happening everywhere nowadays!
Are their unions again taking place due to attraction of sex or love?
They all make one search about the meaning of love and sex again!

Marriage is a commitment for the couples both for good and bad times!
Each should give oneself for the other through thick and thin in life.
Sex is temporary but love is permanent in life for all couples in the world;
Marriage for Selfish reasons cannot last longer leading to divorces only!

Patience and perseverance will keep couples together sans selfishness;
But fast and rigid mode of life cannot keep couples together any longer!

Saturday, October 24, 2009
Topic(s) of this poem: marriage
Raj Nandy 04 November 2009

Rames ji, You have highlighted an important issue that is slowly spreading like cancer in our Society! That 'greed' factor has surfaced once more! This capital city of Delhi is perhaps leading in bride burning & greed score! Also over the years both patience & tolerance spans have drastically reduced! Why go far, tell me how many of us have the patience to search the old poems of poets - to detect a hidden gem there by far? ! Thanks for sharing your poem & thoughts! 10! -Raj

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Andrew Blakemore 04 November 2009

A thought provoking piece. It is a shame that so many marriages fall apart especially when there are children involved. Best wishes, Andrew

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Lady Grace 01 November 2009

marriage signifies union/unity while divorce signifies break ups... marriage is a sacred commitment where man and woman bound as one divorce is the only way to legalize 'separation' marriage needs contracts like divorce too... divorce is quiet good to couples who are not living happily that is the only advantage to go in separate ways.... now adays divorce is rampant especially to socialites it is accepted to some countries but some, it is against their culture.. if there's no love, do couples live happily? so before getting married, , , think twice and think many times''if the relation will not end in separation? conquers rules but it is not demanding...your piece is very nice, , i have so many things to nice, interesting and debatable...cheers...smileeeeeeeeeee..kisesssssssss

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Mehta Hasmukh Amathalal 29 October 2009

Patience and perseverance will keep couples together sans selfishness; But fast and rigid mode of life cannot keep couples together any longer! ....................more n more people are facing this moral hazard andruining their happy married life.This is all becaue of alling in moral standard.impatience and extra marital affairs...unable to grasp or realise the importance of beingmarried personis sole cause of such detasted results......very good write.....10 rad separate ways...anywhere...come home...home bound

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Rachel Butler 28 October 2009

'Patience and perseverance will keep couples together ' Rachel Ann Butler

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Karen Sinclair 15 October 2012

Purely by the capitalised letters in the title it is obvious your discontent of how society leans these day and your sentiments are well founded but very often when young we choose the dead opposite to what we should, a kind of rebellious streak and sometimes people find themselves married to an ogre and should they stay for statistics even if their children are suffering watching violence (plz note this is not my personal experience but of loved ones and friends around me....) the ideal of marriage is a wonderful concept if two well rounded people of giving natures meet but if one is not, the other should not have to stay to keep outsiders happy...thanks for a controversial write which ruffles the feathers and grey matter combined...tyvm karen

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Nivedita Bagchi SPC UK 13 September 2010

Very much relevant and contemporary poetry on burning issue, on marriage and divorce and it is multifactorial … ‘Marriage is a commitment for the couples both for good and bad times! ’ ~ Hedonistic mindset has robbed our time-tested values and we’re after more and best from utter unsecured inner voidness that is self made and we’re in net unable to come out… Sorry Sir…the cyclic of marriage and divorce show will go on… thanks for sharing Hon’ble Poet Ramesh-ji Regards Ms. Nivedita UK 10/10 PS Only Indian civil [read family] values as postulated in scripture can change the scenario n

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Beauty Philosophy 24 December 2009

An interesting subject to tackle and a good debate to launch...Actually marrige is such an engagement that is very difficult to maintain forever...Time, technology, temptations, routine, daily problems change couples a lot... Human nature plays a big role too...Read my poem: 'Marriage, the union of difference'

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lots of wisdom, and talent and time went into this poem. i agree with everything said.

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Sathyanarayana M V S 04 November 2009

Dear Shri Ramesh avl., This malady in the society is as old as 20 years. Now this trend has taken several uglier shapes, like 'living together', 'pub culture'. I think our age group people are too late in their cry..............I hope atleast now people read this good poem and show some true concern.... Thanks for this good piece Sir.

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Ramesh T A

Ramesh T A

Madurai, Tamil Nadu, India
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