The Day Dad Planned His Funeral Poem by Mary Nagy

The Day Dad Planned His Funeral



They said you needed surgery.
You said ''There's business I must do.''
I drove you to the funeral home.
The arrangements were for you.

I had to wait outside that day.
I couldn't go in there.
I don't know how you made those plans.
You showed how much you cared.

You knew you wouldn't make it.
You feared the end was near.
I hate what your life did to you.
I wish you were still here.

How do you plan your funeral?
Were you as scared as I?
What were your thoughts heading to the docs?
Did you know that you would die?

If I could turn back time and say
the things I'd like to say,
I'd say ''I love you'' and ''I'll miss you.''
''I wish that you could stay! ''

COMMENTS OF THE POEM
Brian Dorn 21 August 2006

Wow, Mary... that must have been a difficult day. Your writing expresses courage as always, his as well as yours. Brian

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Will Barber 21 May 2006

Reading a heartfelt poem always scares me a bit - but this is truly a fine work. Stirring up old memories is therapeutic, if we can remember - and not relive - them.

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Mary Nagy 18 November 2005

That's terrible of me..........he was 47///not 48.

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Poetry Hound 10 March 2005

Yikes, what a personal and moving account.

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Mary Nagy 10 March 2005

My dad died 10 days after his quadruple bypass surgery. He was 48 years old. Mary

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